“Don’t feel bad for making decisions that upset other people. You’re not responsible for their happiness, you’re responsible for yours.” I believe we were all taught growing up to not be selfish. Well, I’m here to tell you that’s bullshit. I was raised, like most, to always be thinking of others first and it turned […]

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You promise yourself you will ignore him today, your phone lights up. You regret that twinge of excitement you still got from seeing his name dance across your screen. Then you argue with yourself how many minutes you should wait to respond, 10, 15 20. You decide to type your response and wait to send […]

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“It is not the joy that makes us grateful. It is the gratitude that makes us joyful.” Gratitude isn’t just saying thank you when the waiter places your food in front of you or smiling at the man who held the door for you at the grocery store. It’s realizing the opportunities you have in […]

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“If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary.” The first step to knowing whether or not you are settling starts with if you truly know what you deserve. Do you love yourself enough to know when you deserve better and when you should stop accepting less? […]

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  I know so many people that let the smallest things just destroy their days, they let stress and the negativity consume more time than they should. Trust me, I’ve had those days, days I wouldn’t want to drag through again if someone paid me to. By living a little differently though I have had […]

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“You owe yourself the love you so freely give to other people.”   Self-worth is so vital to your happiness. If you don’t feel good about you it’s hard to feel good about anything else. Yes, this is me telling you to be selfish and love yourself. Wait, I take that back, it is NOT […]

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“Don’t call it a dream, call it a plan” When we were kids the kinds of lifestyles we dreamed of living were consumed with endless possibilities, nothing seemed out of reach or unrealistic, to us it just sounded awesome and we were absolutely determined to live that dream. We could be anything, do anything, see […]

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